Following in Mother Teresa's footsteps

Suchismita hands over packets of fruits and sweets to the patients

Suchismita doesn’t know it, but she is one of the reasons for our name Team Miracle (and also one of the first to hop on board).

This was more than two years ago. We were holding a Music Program (our second) for the cancer patients at Command Hospital. We wanted to take along some fruits for the patients, and were looking for sponsors. Sometimes, plans, even well-intentioned ones, don’t work out…and this was one of those occasions. We tried a lot of  people, but somehow the response was negative. And when two days before the event, I was still without a sponsor and feeling pretty low about it, I got a sudden phone call from Suchismita. And guess what she had to say?!

Yesss, she and her husband Jayant wanted to fund this event. When her voice came floating down the phone line, I found myself thinking ‘What a miracle!’

With the generous amount they handed us, we managed to make wonderful gift packets for each patient - with fruits, chocolates and even a small juice carton. And both Suchismita and Jayant came along to listen to the music and then to mix with the patients, talk to them and spread some cheer. Since then, Suchismita and Jayant have become active members of Team Miracle.

Suchismita is a silent doer. She is an ardent environmentalist. Her home is a delight in green planning, with plenty of natural light and breeze factored in. She also maintains a lush garden. I especially love her veggie garden which thrives on her kitchen waste.

Always active, always doing something, Suchismita’s description of herself is short and crisp, “An ex-full time mom, part time entrepreneur, free-lance writer, avid reader, animal lover, teacher, yoga enthusiast-  like every women, I don many avatars. I like many of them and when opportunities to try a new one come along, I try it on for size. I find interesting stories in everyone and try and share some inspiring ones with the world.”

Suchismita follows the dictum of Mother Teresa - “Not all of us can do great things. But we can do small things with great love.”  

And the beauty (and miracle) is that – we too are inspired by Mother Teresa’s words. As she says, “Mita and Team Miracle were an opportunity to discover that 'good' need not be measured in  quantities, like the number of people you have helped or how much money, time or other resources you can put into helping. They gave (me) the opportunity to live Mother Theresa's words.”

Thank you Suchismita and Jayant, I know that I can count on you.

Not disabled…but doubly abled

Proudly showing off their cache of medals

These guys at the Paraplegic Rehab Centre have come back from a Sports Meet for the Disabled held at Nagpur in February 2013, covered in glory.

(from left to right)

Rindol - 2 Bronzes in shotput and discus

MB Thapa - 2 Golds in shotput and discus and a Silver in javelin

Anil Lankhede - 1 Bronze in javelin

Md Faijazal - Gold in shotput, Silver in discus and Bronze in javelin

Thiru Kumaran - Silver in javelin and discus, Bronze in discus

VP Maske – Silver in shotput and Bronze in javelin

Suresh Kumar Karki – Gold in shotput and discus, and Bronze in javelin

They may have suffered serious spinal cord injuries, they may be paraplegics and quadriplegics, but what is certainly not affected is their high level of enthusiasm and morale. Of course, maintaining this attitude is the main focus of the entire staff at PRC, ranging from the Director to the Admin officer and every one of the caretakers.

Sports form a major part of their daily itinerary, and every evening is devoted to various forms of sports Basketball, Throwball, and races. Now Badminton too has been added to their repertoire with Team Miracle member Vikram Saini gifting money to construct a mobile Badminton court.

“It is your ability, and not your disability that counts,” is the motto of PRC, and these guys prove that where ability is concerned, they are doubly-abled…and with double our energy levels.

How many of us can compete with them and win?! How many of us can even keep up with them?!

Frozen in Time

Sipahi Babban Zore

Can you list your achievements in the last 33 years? Can you enumerate the number of new people you have met, the new things you have learned, the progress in your career, the places you have travelled, the growth in your personal life – marriage, children. So many things have happened to you; how far your life has progressed in these three decades!

Not so for Sipahi Babban Zore. For the last 33 years, from 20 November 1979, Babban has been lying in bed, paralysed neck down, totally relying on an attendant for even his most basic daily needs. On that day, Babban was training for an Army exercise in the jagged mountains of Jammu & Kashmir, when the Army vehicle he was travelling in, fell into a deep ravine. Babban received serious injuries to the spine, causing total paralysis. He was only 22 at that time.

Every two hours, a caretaker comes and turns him around…this is to prevent formation of bedsores. Every three hours, a caretaker has to help him empty his bladder with the help of a catheter. But in spite of his disability, Babban rarely loses the smile on his face.

We salute men like Babban who give us a whole new perspective of life. We also salute the caretakers who perform such tasks with care and affection, never losing their patience.

Dina's gift of Music

Creating miracles with her Harmony

Here’s Dina Das, one of our very active members of Team Miracle with her Harmony Sa-re-ga-ma Music group. Dina has already performed so many shows for us – at PRC, at the Prerna Hall of Command Hospital, and at Artificial Limb Centre, Pune.

Dina is proficient in classical music, gazals, Robindro-sangeet, Nazrulgeeti and Hindi film songs. She’s held stage shows at Mumbai, Delhi, Kolkata and Pune. And although she’s busy with her music school and group, what I love about her is her enthusiasm in making time for these Team Miracle shows with us. “My music is a vehicle to bring some joy into the lives,” she keeps saying. 

She is supported by Ajay Rao and Pranay Joshi – busy finance professionals who come straight from office for the shows. And the entire Ghorai family – Arindam who drives us back and forth, his wife Sutapa who provides technical back-up with her ever-present laptop, little Anoushka who’s already a little nightingale in the making, and even tinier Piu, who has yet to find her singing voice. And to complete the Harmony Sa-Re-Ga-Ma group we have little Achala, and her mother Asha, who chips in as transport manager!

Thank you Dina and Harmony for creating such wonderful music for us all.

The Commando with the Golden Harmonica

Phurbu Rindol  - Playing the mouth-organ

Phurbu Rindol is a para-commando. He belonged to the elite Special Frontier Forces until he became a Quadriplegic in 1995 during a daring rescue mission. He was only 21 at that time.

“Three of us were rushed to Siachen on a rescue mission to extricate some jawans of the Gorkha Rifles who were stuck on a glacier. As we were conducting the rescue, a snow avalanche rushed down the mountain slopes. All the others were swept off the mountain slope. I remained buried in deep snow for more than 2 hours, before I was rescued.”

Rindol has only partial movement in his arms. And, as with many paraplegics, his lungs too are affected, hampering deep breathing. But what has not been affected is his indomitable will.

As with so many mountain folks, Rindol has a great sense of music. In fact he was a keen guitar player. Unable to handle that instrument now, he taught himself to play the harmonica (mouth organ). But, even that is becoming increasingly difficult – because of his limited lung capacity, and also to manouevre the little instrument. So Rindol is now training himself to become proficient in singing.

As the only singer at Paraplegic Rehabilitation Centre, Khadki, he is often called on stage during functions. For us too, a Music Programme is never complete until we’ve had this little treat.

Good work, Rindol. Keep it up! And God bless you.

Preeti Barry, my sarathi

Preeti Barry

Each one of us has our own unique strengths. Each of us has the power to bring in changes in our own special way. Each of us renders important help in unusual ways.

Preeti Barry, our newest Team Miracle member, is that special person. She has been a generous sponsor in so many Team Miracle events – when we were giving festival gifts to the caretakers at Paraplegic Rehabilitation Centre, and again when we needed a sponsor for the Sarangiwala program at PRC.

But Preeti, with her cheerful smile, performs an even greater service. She is my constant companion with her huge Innova, helping to ferry me and the large cache of gifts and stuff that we carry with us. Preeti loves to drive, she’s a great driver, but to me she’s much more than that. She is my charioteer, my sarathi – just like Sri Krishna. It’s an honour that she bestows upon me.

Thank you Preeti, for being always there, for always making time!

Neeti Kaikini, our Nightingale

Neeti Kaikini

As I’d mentioned before, Neeti’s inclusion in Team Miracle was truly a miracle. A former colleague of Amitabh, she just happened to hear that he was rehearsing for a music program to cheer up patients at the Cancer Ward in Command Hospital.

“Would you mind if I joined in,” she popped the question.

Mind? We were delighted because that is exactly what we needed! And when Neeti regaled us with one Golden Oldie after the other, we knew we had struck gold. Neeti can sing in any voice – Lata, Asha Bhonsle, Geeta Dutt…and even Sunidhi Chauhan’s sexy ‘Kaisi paheli zindagani’. In fact, she’s particularly good with what we laughingly call drunken songs – Aao huzoor tumko, Aaiye meherbaan, Raat akeli hai  …and all the rest.

We love her feisty smiling face, her untiring enthu. Neeti is not just a great singer …she’s a general do-gooder. She left her hot-shot corporate job a few years ago to have a more meaningful life. She volunteers regular teaching time with kids at Akanksha. On Saturdays, she’s set herself another goal. On these days, you’ll find Neeti in her kitchen, cooking up a lunch, packing it and then distributing it amongst beggars in her locality.

And why did she volunteer to sing at the Command Hospital? Both her parents are cancer survivors…and her father being a retired Army officer, they were both treated at the Command Hospital. This was Neeti’s way of giving back!